As we prepare to send kids back to classrooms for another school year, Talbot Partnership for Alcohol & Other Drug Abuse Prevention reminds us that it’s important for parents to talk with their children about alcohol. Parents, you are the first line of defense when it comes to your teen’s drug use or drinking. And you do make a difference!

Teen alcohol use kills 6,000 young people each year, more than all other illegal drugs combined. However, research shows that three out of four teens say their parents are the number one influence on their decisions about alcohol.

The most costly assumption parents make is “my kids are good kids, and I can trust they’ll make the right decisions.” Research shows, however, that clear and ongoing communication about alcohol is critical in preventing underage drinking.

Below are a few practical tips for communicating with teens about underage drinking that were prepared by MADD and with Pennsylvania State University’s Dr. Robert Turrisi:

Talk before a problem starts.
•Have the important discussions now, before there’s blame, anger or punishments.
•Agree on a time to talk about the dangers of alcohol — preferably when they’re not tired, hungry or angry.

Discuss rules and consequences.
•Explain expectations and tell them you don’t want him/her drinking.
•Agree on consequences for broken rules.

Show you care.
•Show affection and tell them that you care about them and want them to be healthy and safe.\Pay attention.
•Even when life gets hectic, take time out to listen to them.
•Know where they are and what they’re doing.

Give and get respect.
•Listen and respond respectfully when they talk.
•Insist that they treat you with respect too.

For more tips on parenting substance-free youth, contact Talbot Partnership at 410-819-8067 or visit www.talbotpartnership.org.